Daughter dating deadbeat

Saving a horrible and abusive grown man sounds mentally sick (and is), but oxytocin doesn’t just create romantic bonds, but as I mentioned, mother/child bonds.So, romantic love within a woman can be much more complicated than just sexual attraction.However, breaking the bond of love is emotionally painful for the brain.It literally can create withdrawal and anxiety (even panic attacks).I’ve heard women who dated losers (and even abusive ones) tell me, in complete sincerity, that they were the only ones who “understood him” and could help him.They take on the responsibility of “saving” a grown man.Scratch the surface of a loser and you’ll often find a bad boy underneath (or the shell of a bad boy).

Women typically bonded to these loser men early, back when they may not have been losers (at least in the eyes of the women).When I was in university, I knew a smart, educated woman with a great job who was dating a complete loser.He had no job, no education, and had spent more time in jail than in meaningful jobs. I’ve addressed issues like why do women like jerks?We’ve even given an entire presentation on the topic.You might not like it, but most people can at least see why women would find an exciting bad boy attractive.

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