Psychic love and dating advice for men
Men: Look for similarities Many men make the mistake of writing to a woman they’ve seen on an online dating site, solely on the basis of her photo and geographic proximity.
But selecting the hottest babe in your zip code isn’t the best formula for getting you dates.
Set your search parameters to find a woman who enjoys the same authors, TV shows, movies or hobbies as you.
Then write her with an intelligent observation—something along the lines of “I love author X’s books, too. ” Or if both of your profiles reveal a love of hiking, share a short anecdote about your favorite trail, then ask about her recent experiences in the great outdoors.
Men looking to meet women online often tell me they feel frustrated because women don’t write back to them.
Most reasonably attractive women with online dating profiles receive dozens of those kind of responses per week—in some cases, dozens per day.
Your compliment won’t stand out from all the other responses in her inbox.
I’m not suggesting you choose someone you don’t find attractive—instead, choose attractive women with whom you seem to have something in common.
You are almost guaranteed to fail if you write to a woman on a dating site telling her “You are gorgeous/sexy/hot.” Sorry to break it to you, but this kind of e-mail makes you seem generic and boring.