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FROM ASTRID & MIYUIf you identify with any of these situations, I will let you in on a secret: the “problem” in each of these scenarios is not that the man is shy or inexperienced.
The underlying issue is that he is just not interested enough in starting up a relationship with that particular woman.
Regardless of personality type, men are happiest when allowed to discover love at their own pace.
If the relationship moves forward, it's because he to lead toward commitment.
The Rules definitely do work within any relationship, with any man.
If a man isn’t a good fit for you, The Rules will “work” by revealing early on that you are incompatible.
What he responds to best is a woman with a light, feminine touch; like a beautiful butterfly, she shimmers just out of reach.
By not “helping” him date you, you are letting him know that you see him as the competent adult man that he is. If he approaches you and you start dating, trust that he can figure out what to do.
Since you’re not approaching men (by asking for their help or inviting them for coffee), the rules will help you avoid players and pick-up artists as well as looky-loos—dudes who stare at you or flirt or “favorite” your online profile, but who never actually ask you out. You don't need to pretend to be an introvert in order to attract one. WAIT until he asks you out – don’t make the first move.
But if you admire a man with a more subtle style, you have to be careful not to overwhelm him with your eagerness, or nudge him into "going along" passively with your agenda.
You could find yourself in an entanglement with a man who's not really sure how or why he got there.
If a man tends toward an introverted personality, it’s even more important that you let him lead.
Extroverts can hold their own and fight fire with fire.